A Personal Note for Movember.

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Recently, I was watching Cunk on Life, a hilarious mockumentary with comedian Diane Morgan, exploring all aspects of life, on BBC iPlayer. And suddenly, there he was…

“That’s my doctor!” I shouted.

Professor Prokar Dasgupta, surgeon and pioneer in robotic surgery and urological innovation. I didn’t know all that when I was in his hands, receiving treatment.

The same man who helped me through prostate cancer in 2016.

Seeing him again - brought back a deep feeling of gratitude.

So, this November with Movember and International Men’s Day, I want to ask you, brother, to give some of that attention to your own health.

In 2016, I went through prostate cancer treatment. My father and oldest brother had died from the disease, so, it was a difficult diagnosis to face.

Having also lost my mother to bowel cancer and other family members to suicide and a road accident, death felt closer than ever.

Last of my tribe.

But one thing I had to understand was that their story was not my fate.

I had my own treatment, my own circumstances and people helping me through it.

I received amazing care from the NHS, especially Guy’s Hospital and professor Dasgupta's team. Alongside his expertise, I remember his warmth and man to man reassurance. Having lost my father that meant a great deal to me. I’m really, really grateful for that.

So here is my encouragement: make time for the conversation. If something has changed, get it checked. If you’re worried about your family history or your risk, tell your GP.

Ask about prostate health, whether a PSA blood test is right for you, and how often any checks should happen in your circumstances.

You don’t have to arrive knowing the answers.

You can start with a question.

Making room for your health also means making room to receive care.

I know how much that can matter.

Have a lovely rest of the month.

Christmas and the New Year are not far away - I

might take a break from posting.

Thank you all for taking the time to read my blogs through 2026.

Let’s make 2027 a year of reconnecting with joy and kindness.

I’m looking forward to seeing you soon.

All the best,